“Have you always hated me?”

I’ve never felt genuinely hated until I got married. Such an oxymoron. And now divorced, I wonder was I even ever loved. I don’t think back to dwell but to learn from my mistakes. I want to do it right next time. But what does true love look like? What does it feel like? I’ve […]

To date or not to date?

Some days I am so excited to meet someone and other days I just think don’t want this alone time to ever end. I’m just enjoying this new found freedom so much. Then I think, am I enjoying this too much? I’m just not ready to loose this freedom I’ve discovered. And I don’t want […]

How it went:

Divorce. What a process. It seemed like the paperwork would NEVER end. But I got it done. I researched for months. I did all the paperwork myself, no lawyer. I knew it’d be “simple” in the aspect of a divorce. I knew this because I didn’t want anything. I didn’t want alimony, child support, etc. […]

{Introduction}

Well hello there! Guess I’ll get right to it. I first uttered the “d word” about 8 months into my marriage. I knew it wouldn’t last months before the wedding. I wanted to avoid the embarrassment of cancelling the wedding even at the  cost of my own happiness. Being on this side of the divorce, […]