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It does get better.

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Times seems to heal everything. 2013 was such a year of healing and self discovery. My first FULL year being divorced, living separate, and finding myself. It was such a good year, not perfect but peaceful. I’ve had a chance to actually hear myself think and process everything. I’ve learned a ton and it only […]

Make a list!

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I am a HUGE fan of lists. They just have a way of laying things out so simply. As I’ve said before, my worst fear was regret. Such a life changing decision. I made a list of everything I missed which was a “homework” assignment from my therapist. She looked over it for a few […]

{Focus}

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Shortly after I left I decided to focus more on myself and my health. I started exercising and also did the Paleo diet. That focus on myself helped me get through the adjustments of no longer living with my husband and moving towards divorce. I think having a “focus” helps tremendously. It keeps you busy. […]

“Have you always hated me?”

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I’ve never felt genuinely hated until I got married. Such an oxymoron. And now divorced, I wonder was I even ever loved. I don’t think back to dwell but to learn from my mistakes. I want to do it right next time. But what does true love look like? What does it feel like? I’ve […]

To date or not to date?

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Some days I am so excited to meet someone and other days I just think don’t want this alone time to ever end. I’m just enjoying this new found freedom so much. Then I think, am I enjoying this too much? I’m just not ready to loose this freedom I’ve discovered. And I don’t want […]

Oh, there you are inner voice.

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Listen to yourself. Since the divorce my inner voice is so much stronger. With everything but ESPECIALLY men. It was an unexpected positive from this whole process. I’ve been on a few dates and just met people and I literally know within the first five minutes. I’m embracing this new found inner voice and listening […]